Hi all! Hope you’re all having a great start to 2021. I think that most of us are using January as a clean slate, even if things look like they’re not going to change any time soon. Here in Hawaii, the COVID cases have remained in the hundreds, even getting up to 200 one day in the last couple of weeks. Everyone’s pretty iffy about weather or not to get the vaccine when it becomes available to the public. I have a couple of family members that had to get it in order to work, and so far they say that they haven’t experienced any side effects or any changes.
Have you made any resolutions for this year? My resolution is just to try and make the best out of any situation and keep calm. So many times this year I’ve gotten so frustrated over little things. Being home with Kahele and the kids for those months during the lockdown was something that we weren’t prepared for and there definitely were the highs and lows about that whole situation. When I had the opportunity to go back to work, I could not wait to get out of the house. I was beginning to get snappy about little things, and the feeling of being confined and unsure about our finances definitely didn’t help. But I got through it and realize that it’s not worth getting worked up over things that you have no control over.
I’ve been making a huge effort to recognize when I need a mental break and instead of pushing through to get everything done (cleaning, work, cooking, etc.) Ill lock my bedroom door and take a 15 minute power nap or jump in the shower to rejuvenate before taking on the task. This has helped tremendously with my anxiety. I would hear people say how important it is to take care of yourself and love yourself before you are fully able to love and take care of another, and I’d think to myself “I have no time for myself” and overexert myself to the point of absolute exhaustion. Since taking the “me time” I need, I’ve felt a huge difference in my attitude towards things and people. Fifteen minutes is all it takes, and if I find that I don’t have 15 minutes, I’ll listen to some good music or a podcast while cooking or cleaning. Anything that feels like a treat to myself helps.
Speaking of treats…. I bought myself a new laptop for Christmas. I made sure that it was small enough to take to work with me, so I’ll be able to blog a lot more. So, until next post, please take care of yourselves! Happy New Year!!!