New Year Blog Resolution

Hi everyone!  I know that it has been so long since I wrote, but life has been so busy and there’s been so many changes!  I’ve been struggling with my anxiety and depression.  I’m going to be completely honest and say that I’ve spent so many nights just laying in bed and feeling like I’d just like to sleep the day away instead of getting up and going to work or making breakfast for my kids.  My kids are all doing great and I have so much to be grateful for but the thing is, it just takes something that gets me frustrated to feel so overwhelming that I do get really depressed.  I’m working really hard on trying to do things differently and take more time for myself and actually allow people to help instead of not wanting to burden anyone.

One thing that I absolutely loved, was writing blog posts and I’ve decided to set some time aside everyday so that I can do this.  I’m looking forward to sharing more with all of you and visiting your sites as well.  I hope that this is the one resolution that I can keep, the others I’ve already failed at.

 

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Hawaii Missile Error.  I’ve never been so scared in my life!

I’m writing this at about 8:30pm.  Just a little over 12 hours ago I was getting my 13 year old son up to get ready for his Kamehameha Schools interview when I received this alert on my phone…

  
Suddenly all of the other phones in my house started blaring and we all went into panic mode because we had absolutely no idea what to do.  I grabbed my 2 year old, buckled her into her car seat and Kahele and Kūha’o got in the car and we drove to the nearest high school to seek shelter.  My 10 year old daughter had stayed with my mom last night and my 19 year old slept out.  I called my mom and told her to go to the nearest grocery store and called Maui and told him to go to the mall which was 5 minutes away from where he was.  All the while in my head all I could think was “this is it I’m never gonna see my 2 kids again”.  

We parked the car in the lot of Aiea high school, still wondering why we weren’t hearing the sirens. I grabbed my daughter and we started walking to the gym.  At this point it’s 8:28.  We’re waking to the gym (still in a panic and alternating calls to Maui and Téa) to find that the gym is locked up.  We start running back to our car.  The emotions that were going through me was something I never want to experience again.  At one point I just stopped walking because when I looked to my left I saw Pearl Harbor and thought ‘we’re dead’ and just squeezed my 2 year old and buried my face in her neck and just prayed. I don’t remember what I was saying while praying but  I do know that I’ve never prayed so hard and with so much feeling in my life. My dad called me at that moment and said that there was an alert saying it was a false alarm.  I told him I didn’t believe it while sobbing.  He said the alert came Tulsi Gabbard. Then people around us started yelling out “It’s a false alarm!”.  I still didn’t believe it, how could that be a false alarm and why did they wait so long to get that alert out? 13 year old just hugged me and said it’s ok Mom you can calm down.  I received the official alert on my phone soon after.

  
 I was in a complete daze as we walked back to our car.  We all got in the car and I just had a complete mental break.  I couldn’t get myself under control.  I called my mom and she had ended going to a store in Kailua and Maui had just ended up going into the concrete addition of my dads house, which was safer than where we were. 

When we got home we sat for a little bit still crying and decided to still take Kūha’o for his interview.  I’m glad we did because it was a much needed distraction even though I kept having these moments of anxiety and crying.  We picked up my daughter from my mom and my son from my dad and just spent the day at home together watching the news alerts and interviews and just being thankful to be alive. We are planning to make emergency kits for everyone tomorrow that we will have ready in case this happens again.  We also are going over where the best place to go will be.  This was a huge wake up call to us all. 

I’m so upset that they’re saying a “wrong button” was pushed!  Are they serious?!  A wrong button?!  Can we please see a picture of this button?  Is it some big red button?  Is it next to the false alarm button?  But that’s a rant for another post.

We’ve been hearing stories of the experiences of people all around the island and thought that this was a good place to document mine.  I hope that I will never have to experience the fear that I had today ever again! God bless you all!

  
Here’s a picture of our sunset this evening.  That’s Pearl Harbor to the left.  That line of lights are the bridge lights to Ford Island.

Custom Mug Bouquets

I really wanted to give a personalized gift to my mom and MIL for Mother’s Day.  I also love to get my daughter involved whenever I do anything crafty.

I’ve been seeing all over Pinterest and blogs about how to use sharpie pens on mugs to personalize them.  Then by baking them in the oven they become permanent.  So, I decided to give it a try.

We started with some plain white mugs that I already had and made sure to get them really clean and ready for the markers by wiping them down with rubbing alcohol.  Next I let my daughter get to work on the decorating.  We used oil based sharpie pens (because that’s what multiple sources suggested).  When there was a mistake, using an alcohol soaked q-tip took care of it.

Next we baked them in the oven for 250 degrees for 2 hours and let them cool completely.

To finish the project, we cut the stems and arranged the roses to fit nicely into the mug.  Being that this was our first attempt, I thought they came out really nice.  I can’t wait to try this diy again.

It’s been a while

Hi everyone!  I haven’t posted in a little bit because so much has been going on. I quit my job 2 weeks ago and I’ve been so busy just trying to sit and figure out what’s next.  I quit because the company I was at for over 11 years wasn’t giving me what I needed as far as compensation or a fair working environment.  It’s been taking a toll on me mentally and emotionally for a while and recently I started to bring that stress home with me.  So yes, it was time to go.

I’m so excited to see where the road will take me.  I’m someone who is so interested in EVERYTHING that I have so many routes that I can go as far as a career.  But, that doesn’t help when I’m not sure what the heck it is I really want to do. I love office jobs (because I’m super organized and a fast worker) however I’m debating on going back to esthetics full-time.  Or, I could also go  back to a career in behavioral health.  I JUST DON’T KNOW!!!! So many possibilities, so you can see that I’m more excited than scared even though I am unemployed.

I’m submitting applications for anything that sounds interesting and hoping that whatever is meant to be will be. Until then, I hope to start posting and getting a little more serious about my blog.  Hopefully I’ll be getting more traffic and maybe even make a little bit of side money from it? We’ll just have to see!

Until then I’ve been enjoying my time at home with my baby girl.  I wish I was able to stay home with her until she enters preschool.

Rock n Fun Kapolei

Games, Burgers, Fries, Milkshakes and… A BAR!  There’s fun for everyone at the new Rock N Fun, located at Ka Makana Ali’i in Kapolei.  Last night we were invited to the soft opening of this new venue that combines Fun Factory and Johnny Rockets.  Here on the island, we associate E. K. Fernandez with all things fun.  They’ve provided family entertainment through their Carnivals and Fun Factory game rooms for what feels like forever (since I was a little girl). So we were so excited to learn that they’d be collaborating with one of my “must-eat” restaurants whenever we travel to California.

I’m not too sure about the actual Grand Opening, but I’m assuming that the date will be within the next couple of weeks.

The food was so good! Kahele and the kids are definitely Burgers & Fries lovers, so they filled up til satisfied.  My favorite burger at Johnny Rockets is the patty melt and a chunk of my afternoon was spent craving it!  When I took my first bite it was exactly what I’d been wanting.  Of course the shakes were awesome. I love how the adults are able to get their grub and drink on while the kids are in watching distance playing arcade games.  It really is the best of both worlds.

Truly Madly Guilty by Liane Moriarty

Synopsis

Sam and Clementine have a wonderful, albeit, busy life: they have two little girls, Sam has just started a new dream job, and Clementine, a cellist, is busy preparing for the audition of a lifetime. If there’s anything they can count on, it’s each other.

Clementine and Erika are each other’s oldest friends. A single look between them can convey an entire conversation. But theirs is a complicated relationship, so when Erika mentions a last minute invitation to a barbecue with her neighbors, Tiffany and Vid, Clementine and Sam don’t hesitate. Having Tiffany and Vid’s larger than life personalities there will be a welcome respite.

Two months later, it won’t stop raining, and Clementine and Sam can’t stop asking themselves the question: What if we hadn’t gone?

My Thoughts

 I am in love with Liane Moriarty’s books. So far she hasn’t disappointed me and I can’t wait to read more from her. This book kept me in suspense. You know how when you’re hooked on a television series and the episode ends at the point where you’re going crazy knowing that it’ll be another week before you actually find out what happens next? Well that’s how Moriarty ended each chapter, but with this book it was perfect because you knew that as long as you kept reading you were going to get to that satisfied feeling in just a few pages. I loved it! The reader gets to experience the point of view from each character, which allows you see the story unfold around you, I felt very present throughout the book. It’s incredible how the simplicity and easy flow of Moriarty’s words can create these novels. Simple, uncomplicated reads that grip you and keep you entertained from beginning til the end. A MUST READ!

Things to do on the windward side of Oahu- Part 3

When you exit The Valley of the Temples you’ll turn left onto Kahekili Hwy which will merge onto Kamehameha Hwy.  This highway will literally take you all the way to the North Shore. Keep heading down the road for about 3.5 miles and you’ll see …

**Waiahole Poi Factory**

If you’re looking for some authentic yummy hawaiian food, stop your car and get some of the best on the island right here.

**Kualoa Beach**

Chinaman’s Hat is located 0.3 miles from the shore.  And the beach park is huge, making it a great place for camping or weekend BBQ’s with the whole family.

**Kualoa Ranch**

Right across the street you can visit Kualoa Ranch.  The ranch offers horseback riding and ATV riding through the most beautiful valleys.  You can take a Movie Tour and visit some of the sites of where movies like Jurassic Park, 50 first dates, Mighty Joe Young, Lost and if you’re lucky a filming in progress.  They even have a cafe to purchase lunch or a snack.

**Ka’a’awa Beach**

This is the beach that I grew up going to with my family.  We’d wake up before the sunrise, stop off at the store and buy all the foods and drinks we need for the entire day that we had planned for the beach.  We’d meet up with my dads family and have the best time from sunrise to sunset.

**Polynesia Cultural Center**

The PCC is probably one of the most popular tourist destinations to visit here on Oahu on the Windward Side.  Here you’ll be able to experience the different cultures of the Polynesian people.  They’ve built a park where within they’ve designated “villages” to represent Hawaii, Samoa, Tonga, Tahiti etc.  It can be an all day activity by doing all of this, or you can just attend the Luau and evening show called “Ha- breath of life”.  Even if this is a tourist attraction, me and my kids love to spend the day here.

Well, that’s it guys.  I hope you enjoyed these post on the Windward Side of Oahu. It’s very laid back in comparison to the other side of the island where you’ll find the hustle and bustle of life and I couldn’t see myself living anywhere else.